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Coming up on Better Place Project.
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How about just also societal slash, collateral impact?
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There are a lot of ways in which our society today is better than it was 50-something years ago.
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Right, I'm 53, and the book sort of looks at 1971 to 2024.
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Are we better off in other ways Suicide, mental health, loneliness, national debt, stock ownership, distribution, home ownership, distribution, hate.
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Are we better off?
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And how are we measuring that?
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Because GDP it doesn't capture that.
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So I just know, speaking more on a personal level.
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So I just know, speaking more on a personal level, the type of life that I want to have.
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I buried both my parents, and this is not profound, I mean, we all know this.
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I've seen the end of life.
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I've seen it and I don't want to die in a way that is embarrassing to my children, like I want my children to experience what I did, which was for them to say you know my dad, he was a decent man.
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Make the world a better place.
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Make the world a better place.
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Hey, hey, I'm Steve Norris.
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Hey, hey, I'm Steve Norris.
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Welcome to Better Place Project, where each week, we shine a light on amazing humans from every corner of the planet who are doing extraordinary things to help make the world a better place, including sharing their knowledge with us on how we can be living healthier, happier, more purposeful lives.
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Hey everybody, welcome to episode 187.
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I'm going to just come out and say it.
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This is going to go down as one of my favorite conversations of all time with just an extraordinary human who's written an extraordinary book.
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That absolutely just blew me away.
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Okay, back to it.
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Wow, do we have a special episode today?
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In fact, this conversation was so incredible that we ran out of time recording it and we hopped on the phone a few days later and we completed the conversation at that time and, rather than just edit this down to a normal length episode, it's just so full of many good nuggets, some information, that I didn't want to slice any of that out that we decided to break it into a two-part series this week and next week.
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And who is this special guest I could not be more honored to bring you today?
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Mr James Rhee.
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James Rhee is a former high school teacher and Harvard Law School graduate who became a private equity investor and, unexpectedly, an acclaimed CEO.
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He bridges math with emotions by marrying capital with purpose, while composing systems that bridge people's disciplines and ideas.
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His transformational leadership has been recognized by leading civic and business organizations.
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His brand new book that is out today, by the way, is entitled Red Helicopter A Parable for Our Times.
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Lead Change with Kindness Plus a Little Math.
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James is working on related film, music and television projects as well.
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His TED Talk and Dare to Lead interview with Brene Brown have captured the imagination of millions.
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James' leadership grabbed global attention during his unlikely seven-year tenure as chairman and first-time CEO at Ashley Stewart, a fashion retailer with deep historical roots in the Black American community.
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After the financial community turned its back on this twice bankrupt company, james left the world of private equity and led the creation of a reimagined ecosystem that blurred boundaries and centered kindness and math, a combination that fueled an unprecedented transformation and transcendent success story.
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Core to the reinvention was the deep friendship and shared values between the son of Korean immigrants and a predominantly black female employee group, who placed their mutual trust in each other, learned from one another and then proceeded to quietly shock the world.
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This episode has been about a year in the making and with this just freakishly different, unique, inspiring book.
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Guys, I shed some tears reading this book and it's just come out.
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It's out now.
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Like I said, comes out today, if you're listening to this on the day.
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This episode published on April 9th, but it just made sense for James and I to have this conversation now, a conversation and a book that we both just feel is so needed right now.
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Guys, I truly hope that this episode just gets you thinking thinking about how you do your job, how you run your company, how you treat the people closest to you in your life, how you show up in the world, because it sure got me thinking, and just so much more that I got out of this book and from this conversation.
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So, without further ado, now I bring you part one of my conversation with the one and only James Rhee.
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Welcome to the show, james.
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Thanks so much for being here.
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I love being here, Steve.
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I've been looking forward to this for like a year now, right.
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Yeah, we have been talking about knocking this out and I'm just so excited we're finally doing it.
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In fact, the first thing I would say is I'd like to set an intention and we can co-set this.
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You let me know any alterations, but I'd like to set an intention that we co-create something.
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If we go on a tangent, we do it, but really in the spirit of this book, to just put out a ripple of kindness and hopefully some inspiration because I know I was so inspired from reading this book and just throw it out into the ether and have some fun today.
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How does that sound Totally?
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I know you're a music guy, so let's just sing a duet.
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It's a piece of music.
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As are you Perfect, I love it, we will sing a proverbial duet.
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So, with that said, can we kick it off with?
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Your mom and dad, as you talk about in this book, are first generation Korean Americans, and they were baffled one day to learn that you were given a toy at school and they didn't quite understand why.
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Can you talk a little bit about what that toy was, which is also the name of this book that we're going to be talking about today?
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And I believe you were five years old, correct?
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Yeah, so yeah, for me it was a literal red helicopter and for you and your listeners it's a metaphoric red helicopter because I think we all have one.
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It might not be an actual red helicopter, but, yeah, I came home from school public school, long Island bowl cut.
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You know you have to picture big dimples and sort of holding this like analog toy red helicopter that you used to get in like a five and dime with the plastic wrapping.
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You know that sort of thing.
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And they were confused why I got it.
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And it was just a series, uh sequence of like misunderstandings, of somehow thinking something was wrong.
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So did you take it from school?
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No, did we screw up and not understand american customs and you should have given toys to all your five-year-old public school kids.
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No, mom and dad, you didn't screw up this one, but we're all right.
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And they got sort of.
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I think my dad in particular was a little bit frustrated that I didn't know why this.
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I kept saying a family came in to give it to me.
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A family came in to give Came into your school, yeah, and just, they came into school that morning and I just kept saying that and I was five right, so I was nervous.
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I'm like a family came in a family came in.
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I kept saying that and anyway they found out why I got it.
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I didn't know how to articulate why.
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They gave me the toy.
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Um and uh, they found out later that I had been sharing you know, my mom's like meticulously crafted lunch with this boy.
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And they called me in and told me that and I said and they asked me why, why are you sharing your lunch?
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And I thought I was in trouble again and it turned out I wasn't in trouble, it's.
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I didn't know this, but my friend didn't have lunch oftentimes because his mom had died that summer and I didn't know that.
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I mean, I was five and anyway.
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So the dad had come in, it wasn't the whole family, it was the dad and a few of his siblings and they just handed me the red helicopter and they didn't say anything.
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It was more, it was like an act of appreciation, without belaboring the point.
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And I was again, and they just did it very in a classy way.
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I just remember, and I remember being kind of an idiot and running around the classroom excited I got a toy, yeah, but the meaning of it you know, as the book you know talks about just it stuck with me as such, a moment of not just kindness which kindness is part of what I'm about to say it's intuitive wisdom that's beyond education, beyond learning, it just is in us, and that such simple things.
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As you get older, it can be so hard and you start rationalizing things that are so obvious.
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He didn't have lunch.
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He was my friend.
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I had enough.
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We're good, yeah.
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Yeah, and you talked about that.
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You're even worried that, my gosh, did you offend your mom, that you gave away this wonderful lunch.
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That was she upset with you as well.
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It's amazing what goes through a five-year-old's head.
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Yeah, and like and yeah, it's like a, it was an abundance mindset, right like now we use that term and like fancy talk and say, wow, you had such an abundant mindset even though there was, you know, a little bit of scarcity at home.
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It wasn't easy for the Ree family in 1976.
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But yeah, even though we didn't have a lot, I just felt very abundant.
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I don't know, and we're going to talk a little bit later about how that red helicopter kind of flies back into your life, so to speak, later on in your career.
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So let's jump forward.
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You graduate college, you go off to Harvard, go to law school and you end up in investment banking, flying private jets, living a good life, but way off in the memory.
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Is this proverbial or literal?
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red helicopter.
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Can you talk a little bit about that part of your life?
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So here you're now having financial success, but there was a but there.
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Can you share a little bit about that?
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Yeah, I'll riff off of what you just said.
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I'm not necessarily sure it was quote a good life.
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There were parts of it that were, you know, conventionally defined good life, like I finally was out from underneath a large six figure student debt load.
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Yeah, um, you know I had quote uh, prestige, my resume was fancy and like, yeah, private jets they can be cool sometimes I guess I was learning the hard way about the systems of money.
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It's like, not like I grew up with money, I didn't know how money worked and so, yeah, I was in private equity here in Boston in a pretty tall building doing some pretty cool things, but inside I was learning, right, I'm like, ah, this is the environment of some of the highest echelons of money, and I was there.
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Right, this is the culture of money, these are the goals of this money.
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And I'm a student of systems.
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So I was like, ah, the way money is organized.
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I'm like, ah, it provides these type of incentives for people who control money to make certain decisions.
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And you have to remember before that I was a after college.
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I taught high school for $12,600 a year.
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Yeah, we were going to circle back to that, but yeah, for a couple of years, correct?
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Yeah, for two years I went to law school thinking I would be a public defender yeah, and in college I studied civics basically right, like how people behave, and ethics and philosophy and the classics, and so it was just for me, a learning experience.
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I really enjoy investing money because it is you're making wagers on opinions about the future and I like doing that.
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Sure, and I loved private equity parts of it because you're creating companies.
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I loved helping inflection point companies, like when people are stuck lots of people you have to eat.
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You earn a living.
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I didn't like some of the other parts of private equity and the industry has obviously evolved a lot even more since I was doing it full time.
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So if we could jump now to the book for a moment and I would like to, if I could read a quick passage from the book early on, and you wrote quote through the pages of this book I hope you give yourself permission to look at the business of life and the life of business in a different way, to perhaps rediscover or rethink a few of your perceptions and perspectives, to find comfort in our shared connectedness and reassurance about its potential for positivity and growth.
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This isn't a self-help book and it isn't a business book, and at the same time it's both.
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Nor is a book about music or philosophy or leadership or the meaning of loyalty or what it means to lose your parents, though we will brush up against all those subjects and more.
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Maybe this book is best described as a celebration of humanity, and you went on to write.
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I love that passage.
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You went on to write, but at its core, this is a story of how the simplest truths that we knew as children can change the trajectory of our lives and, yes, even our business, and how, for maybe both life and business, true success centers around balance, balancing life, money and joy through the creation and measurement of goodwill and all the connectedness that comes with it.
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Now, when you wrote this book, did you know, because I'm just going to throw this out there?
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This is a special, special book and, as we talked about before I hit recording, I'm a student of business books and I'm an entrepreneur.
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I started two companies from scratch and built them up into multi-million dollar companies, and so I've lived and breathed for a better part of my 20s, 30s, early 40s of how to grow companies and how to increase your EBITDA and all the things about business.
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But what I never really was doing and don't get me wrong, I loved my teams and I always believed in treating people really well.
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But the humanity and to go in with kind of that attitude first and foremost is something that I wish I had had this book when I was 25 years old and learned this early on, especially when you talk about how this is just good for business and we're going to talk about the Ashley Stewart story.
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So this book hasn't even come out.
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Well, it's going to come out.
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It will be out for those listeners listening.
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It's coming out April 9th and we're publishing this episode on April 9th, but James and I are talking to you from the past a couple weeks before that.
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So what are your thoughts now on having written this book and throwing it out there?
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Are you scared, are you excited?
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Do you feel like this is something really special?
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like this is something really special.
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I think after going through this book writing process, it's more a feeling of beleaguerment.
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It's hard to write a book.
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It really has been hard, because it's a lot of soul search and you have to be really honest about yourself and about your life.
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I write that In this book.
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I am not the protagonist of this book.
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There it's my mother.
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It's the women that reminded me of who she was.
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It's those women.
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And it's all of these friends who made sure that I showed up as the better form of me more often than not.
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Like those are the protagonists.
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I'm sort of like the stumbling Odysseus a little bit and trying to find his way, and so I'm excited because I think the way it's written, I hope that it will be relatable to anyone who's lost a parent, who is at an inflection point in their life, who is starting a business, who's at a point where they are wondering what the meaning of all this is.
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There are plenty of people in this country and the world who are scared right now and unsettled, worried, and the tone of the book it's not one of prescription or you know, you have to learn these things.
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The tone is how I like to be spoken to is sort of just, I think you know more than you think actually, and you're better than you think.
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You're being told that you're not as good by comparing yourself to all the ridiculous things on instagram and right, like we're being told that you're not as good by comparing yourself to all the ridiculous things on Instagram and right, like we're being told you don't know.
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Here are the five things you have to know.
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You don't know and I'm saying I think that you know it more intuitively than you think and I can see you doing it in different parts of your life already.
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So those parts of your life that are the best, why not apply them in your work life too?
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They would work.
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So I'm excited, you know.
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I hope that it helps people.
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And thank you for saying what you said about being 25 years old.
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You know that I'm spending a significant amount of my time right now in classrooms at college, business school and law schools, because I said to myself I have no business writing this book if I can't also teach it in an academic setting.
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Also teach it in an academic setting.
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I know I can teach in the private sector, in real life business.
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That I've done but it's not scalable if you can't teach it pedagogically in a classroom.
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And so I'm excited for the younger people because I wish I had this book too, and I wish I had it well before I lost both my parents, actually.
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Well, well, yeah, and we're going to talk about that in a little while and I know that your dad had Parkinson's as well and you talk very openly throughout the book about that.
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Before we jump to that, because you were just talking about that, you want this, having come up through Harvard, but you want this book to be able to be teachable, not only in the private world and to business and to individuals, but in the classroom as well.
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But you talk in the book that you don't want to be defined by Harvard and at your graduation you saw a sign that said in fact, tell us about that story where you saw a sign that said welcome to the fellowship of educated men and women, and what was your reaction to that sign?
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Yeah, and it's not a sign, it's actually what they say, like it's almost oh, is that right?
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Okay, I thought it was a sign, as you're coming into your graduation ceremony.
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No, that would be even worse, but it was bad.
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Oh, okay, they said that's funny.
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But they would say, you know, sort of that expression welcome to the society of educated men and women.
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I'm sure I'm positive that a long time ago it was just educated men, right, but so they added women.
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Sure, yeah, I just, I don't know Like I it was, it's.
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It strikes me as elitist.
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Yeah, I just.
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I don't like it.
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I think the whole point of life is that you get more informed so you develop agency.
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But there is a wisdom that cannot be taught other than through life experience, practical experience, and a lot of Buddhist monks talk about a layer of that wisdom that are beyond.
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Quote wisdom it's like innate.
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It's innate wisdom, it's a knowing.
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It's like prana right, it's like that knowing you just know, and that's why I wrote in the book.
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It's like the only thing I know that I'm confident in anymore.
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After 53 years of doing a lot of crazy things in different countries, meeting so many incredible people in different cultures.
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I know what kindness is, which I try to explain in the book, and I know what math is.
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Those two things are always, always right and they're always the same, like in any culture, any age group.
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We all know what they are.
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So, yeah, I didn't love it.
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And because up until then, you know, up until the age 18, I was a public school kid from Long Island, first person in his family born in this country.
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I had very little expectations or I was happy, actually, like I was learning a lot.
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Public school, love playing sports, love music, love going to school, had tons of friends and you know Harvard, that brand, that credential, it was a tough thing for an 18 year old boy like me to wield.
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Correctly, it was heavy right it was almost overwhelming a little bit, just, and I was like so what?
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I got into the school?
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I got some good grades, I did well on a stupid standardized test and I got some good recs right Great, does this define me for the rest of my life?
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And, by the way, so what you know, what I do with this in my life is what matters.
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So what you know, what I do with this in my life is what matters.
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So what?
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Sure.
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So you graduate and rather than like so many of your peers and your friends, rather than go off and get some high profile, high paying job, you decide to go be a school teacher.
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And so can you talk about that little two-year window in your life.
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Yeah, looking back, I think it was a little bit of an act of resistance to sort of being channeled into a preordained path and becoming a cog.
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A little bit of a rubble in you.
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Yeah, a little.
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Bartleby the Scrivener.
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I'm like you know, herman Melville, I prefer not to.
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I'm like you know, I'm going to go.
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I don't want to be a monkey in a cubicle doing, I just don't.
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Not now.
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And I think, james, this was the intuition that was inside of you that felt called, just like the five-year-old that felt called to.
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I'm going to boy my sandwich If I called to.
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No, I don't want to go do what everyone else is doing.
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I want to.
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This feels right to me.
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You maybe didn't know why, maybe you thought.
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I want to give back a little bit and I don't need to go make a six figure salary, you know.
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But um, yeah, how was that experience for you?
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What?
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What level were you teaching?
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It was high school, high school.
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What level were you teaching it?
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was high school, I believe High school and it was.
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You know, I'm intentionally not a quote fancy like well, well, big endowment school.
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It was a struggling school and it was a mix of people.
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And I wrote in the book that our baseball team, like I think our uniforms may have been, they must have been like 15 years old, yeah.
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You talk about that.
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And they were like this remember the heavy, like you know, the potato sack.